Safety On The Internet

As a parent of a teenager who uses the internet frequently, have you really sat down and talked with your teen and discussed about issues related to safety on the internet? If not, it is high time to do so, for your teen is exposed to risks online. If one doesn’t know the dos&donts, the internet indeed can be a dangerous place.

The best way to get across your message about safety on the internet to your child or teen is of course, building up your relationship to a point where your teen confides and relies on you for any advice and guidance. Of course this takes time but it makes the tasks so much easier and effective.

Well, you need to get across the message now as you cannot afford to delay the matter further, as your child is at risks and their safety on the internet cannot be compromised. Bringing up the subject can be rather hard, as teens may take it in another sense, like, that you are being suspicious of their activities online, and drive them away.

First of all you do want to appear as an overprotective, overbearing parent, for this might drive him away. Do not start lecturing right away on the topic of safety on the internet to your teen, but rather start the discussion by asking them if they would advice you on the areas of safety on the internet, like starting the discussion with how ‘cool’ social network media like MySpace is . Let them think that they are the expert being consulted with. This way it should open up the conversation for further sharing of ideas in the area of safety on the internet, which you of course are ready with.

You will sometime come across news stories on TV, web etc. It would be useful to share and discuss the news or stories with your teen. You could sit down with your teen in front of the computer and browse through the stories online while at the same time discussing about what could have been done in the prevention of the the particular case happening. This would also instill a sense of fear and that of caution too.

There has been cases of kids who has been suspended from school due to underage activities like drinking, smoking, who actually were not caught red handed but their photos found online by the authorities. Some kids think it is ‘cool’ to upload such photos and videos online to MySpace not knowing the consequences. If you can find such specific stories on the web, go through it with your teens again discussing what would have been the proper steps and precautions.

Make sure you discuss with your teen about the ‘online friends‘. How assuming or creating identities is so very easy, which is assumed by online predators. The whole point is, teens resent being lectured upon, so the next best way is to let them actively participate in the discussions, make them feel that their opinion is counted, that they are listened to.

Encourage your teen to share and discuss with you topics on the area of safety on the internet.